Clarification

I have had several people close to me comment that some of the things I said in my last post seemed, well, out of character for me and like I was trying to point a finger. My phrase "you know who you are," seemed to stand out as somewhat vindictive. I value the opinion of these people and I have really been thinking hard about what they said and why I wrote what I wrote. Yes, i have been very hurt by the words of some people, and I am honestly not sure whether these people will ever read my blog - for various reasons. But as I have pondered and reread my words and tried to understand what I meant, I can tell you that my intention was not to be mean, vindictive or to point a finger. Rather, my intention was to say to my friends who have been supportive, "this is not you, you would know if it was." There are so many people in my life who support me in such incredible ways and I am truly thankful for each and every one of you. And the few that I do not feel support from - they are people that I care about and that I know care about me in their own ways.